Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Taking pills of MOTIVATION to stay SELF-MOTIVATED

Dear Reader, do you have challenges with a lack of motivation? The very meaning of the word motivation means “to move”. Defined as the internal factor that induces behavior and gives a new direction, motivation is integral to everyone’s life. Motivation theory described the various processes that talk about the reasons (why, how, what etc) that affect an induce behavior patterns in all of us to feel motivated to do something.

One factor which plays a major role in determining the success of any individual is motivation. Motivation is a positive emotion which drives human beings for achieving their goals and provides them with the necessary drive to achieve what they desire. Now the question arises about how to maintain our motivation level at all time? Read on to discover how.

What are you striving for? Do you have goals in life? - There can be several things you might be striving for in terms of material aspect. But the question in hand is, are you striving for perfection? If this is the case then you would most probably end up demoralizing yourself as there is no such thing as perfection. Each new day in your life is a new discovery therefore you should strive for excellence and not perfection to stay motivated.

Have a deadline - This is the biggest form of inspiration and motivation for any human being. Goals are dreams with deadlines. Having a specified deadline keeps you charged up as closer the dead line comes the harder you need to work therefore it keeps you on your toes. It also keeps your motivation level at high.

Take massive actions - The main secret to motivation is doing what you truly want to do from within not what someone else wants or expects you to do. Therefore do not live according to the society of the people around you and be your own master. Therefore you do not need an external push to get your engine going, you have all the energy within you good enough to help you achieve your goal with ease. That is what self-motivation is all about.

Let your fears drive you - It's good to have fears at times as they drive you towards success. Usually, pain factors are more useful in helping you to stay focus on your goals and maintain your motivation state. Let your fear be a driving force along with a specified deadline. Make it like a real battle where it's a do or die situation. Think about how awful your life would be if you do not achieve what you truly desire.

Learn from famous failures - There are several famous people right now who used to be big failures at first. Learn from such great people and model their mindsets. Get into their minds and learn how they managed to bypass the turbulent times to become what they are right now. Why do they have such great motivation? Overcoming adverse situations and make an opportunity out of diversity is the best motivating factor for any human being.

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Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Equip Yourself To Succeed

If you have paid attention to a a goldfish in a bowl, you may have noticed that it just swims round and round the bowl and never gets anywhere. Many people are like goldfish. Busy as they might seem to be, they drift and wander through life without plan or purpose.

Life is never intended to be a game of chance. You must decide what you want out of life. The choice is yours. Think of a successful person that you want to emulate. Make it your life goal, in line with your natural aptitude and talent.

Besides academic qualifications, there are some other qualities essential to attaining success in whatever you do:

Aptitude
The selection of the right profession in life has become quite complicated. Your aptitude is your natural tendency or acquired inclination; both capacity and propensity for a certain course. This is one of the secrets in selecting your life goal. Make sure you choose a career that you are naturally suited for, or in a field that interests you.

Personality
Every person has a personality that is all his own, with physical, mental, social and emotional characteristics that are unique to him. A positive personality plays a vital part in building a successful career, as people like dealing with somebody who is optimistic, cheerful and confident. Analysing your personality profile helps you to understand yourself and how you relate to your work environment. Are you an early bird or a night owl? Are you outgoing or an introvert? Choose a career in which your personality can shine through. If you are an introvert, for instance, a career in sales may not be suited to your personality. You would be better off doing something that does not require dealing with many people.

Intelligence
There are multiple, inter-disciplinary forms of intelligence, such as linquistic intelligence (displayed by poets), quantitative-logical intelligence (scientists), musical intelligence (composers), spatial intelligence (architects and sculptors), bodily-kinesthetic intelligence (dancers and athletics), interpersonal intelligence (entrepreneurs and trainers), naturalist intelligence (botanists) and existential intelligence (leaders). All individuals have these intelligences, but differ from one another in their strengths and profiles. Psychologists say that the average person uses only 2 to 5 per cent of his mind's potential. Even the best use only up to 10 per cent. Our brain is like a muscle, use if often to develop it. Make sure that what you do challenges your abilities, and forces you to work to, or even exceed, your potential.

Integrity
Integrity is soundness of moral principles and character. With integrity, you foster closer relationship and trust among those who work with you, especially those you manage. Colleagues will look upon you with respect as well.

Besides the above qualities, you should also possess qualities such as humility, self-motivation, conscientiousness, postitive attitude, self-confidence, resilience, perseverance, patience, foresight, vision, kindness and creativity. Lifelong learning should form part of your daily routine so as to be knowledgeable and to stay ahead of others. Life is full of trials and tribulations. It is not what happens to you, rather it is what you do about your life that matters. Learn life lessons the wise and cost-effective way rather than the hard way.

Every person is good at something. Be a master of your own destiny. Pursue your passion, uncover and develop your natural hidden talent to your fullest potential and bring out the best that is within you.

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